1.Life is like a goldmine game. You try to get what you focus on, with the experience u become accurate in getting what u focus on . But if you focus on small and less valuable things, you will only get them , If you focus on more valuable things, u will get them but they will take ur more effort and time, so u need to have patience to get them but u need to learn what to focus on so that you can get more value in the given time . in life also , you do not have unlimited time , the only way to learn this is to take interest in the life and experiences it.
2. When we become a important member of society, we feel proud of ourself because ppl give us respect. But which society? It can mean differently for different people. For me, there is society of human beings. I do not have a society of hindu or muslim, or Danish . I am the member of society of those who believe in and respect the human values in the man kind. If I can gain respect in this group of ppl, it is called importance in society. So I have to be a good member of my own chosen group. I can never be favourite to every one in the world, but I have to decide carefully which group of people I want to become important for.
3. Now the honeymoon period of ur life is over . You have been living it for last 25 years. Now you will have to come to the battle field of life…you have to become tough gradually. Many times you will have to face push from those who are powerful…but don’t lose ur temper and courage. Always focus on good things coming in you way….you are starting the journey as a good human being and you have to end it in the same form. There is no hurry of winning a race but you have to go thinking what you need and want from life. Some times you may have to change your way but don’t fear losing good ppl because you will find them in every way of life. You are going to live the whole life in your mind. Contolling ur mind will give you the control of your life. Always keep helping those who need you …always keep spreading happiness among those who are near to you…this way you will forget ur pains and the path will become joyous..you will have to face the thorns as well…face them with courage. Don’t try to avoid them which may lead you to a wrong path and you become aimless.
4. There are tools which needs be used to overcome the challenges of life. We all earn them and lose them in the journey, from the parents, friends, circumstances and our attitude plays an important part to learn to use them. With the repeated practice, we start carry them along with our mindset. In some circumstances we are unable to use any tool. Then we take them from our beloved ones when we ask for help. Also, we give our tools to them sometime when they need. So if we have variety of tools in our camp, it becomes easier to tackle problems. And this is why we should respect the differences among the camp. So marry a girl with different attitude…you can learn a lot and she can from you as well. AND DO NOT HESITATE TO USE THE TOOLS YOU HAVE....
5. Remember one thing, if others do not do their duty which harms you , don’t care for it….but when it is your turn, always perform your duties…this will make you learn ur responsibilities which u have to bear in furure for u and ur beloved ones. Dutifulness comes with the pain…but it gives u relaxation later.
6. If you think you are right, then have passion about it.
7. I am some times feeling mentally week.. every body does…..i am not the person who want to harm others but if others tease me i feel like harming them as i suddenly gets the anger...i am not able to take every thing lightly...i think i am right..Ppl do not say everything with light intention...some times they want to tease you for nothing....do not give them the scope of doing this....avoid them as soon as they say some thing wrong...you are the best person i have come across..who really know how to avoid the bad situations in the best possible way...so keep doing that...do not try to be like ppl who are mentally more black than you...they want to be like you or make you like them...you need not be like them....let them try....do not let them succeed...what you need is a little more patience...
8. Do self analysis, avoid other’s analysis…….
9. The work done with honesty and truthfulness is the best, it brings happiness and satisfaction even if desired result is not achieved.
